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🎯 Praise – A Parent’s Superpower in Youth Soccer ⚽💬

  • Writer: George Calmoti
    George Calmoti
  • Jul 1
  • 2 min read

Think about how it feels when someone says, “Hey, great job today!”

It’s simple, but it lifts you. You smile. You stand a little taller.

Now imagine how your child feels when you say that. 💚


In youth soccer, praise isn’t just a kind word — it’s fuel.

Sometimes, it’s more powerful than a win.

It tells your child, “I notice you. I see how hard you're working. And I’m proud of you.”


But the real question is: when and how should we give praise?


✅ It doesn’t have to follow a goal, a win, or a trophy.

✅ It doesn’t need to be paired with a reward — no new gear, no sweets, no extra screen time.

✅ Often, a simple and sincere “Well done” is more than enough.


👉 “I saw how focused you were today — that really meant something.”

👉 “You’ve improved so much since last time. I’m proud of the progress you’re making.”


🔁 Don’t turn praise into background noise. If it’s constant, it starts to lose meaning.

But don’t hold back when effort is real. That’s when it matters most.


📌 The most powerful praise is specific, honest, and tied to effort — not results.


Kids won’t always be the stars of the game.

But they can always give their best. And that deserves recognition.


💡 Praise shouldn't be a prize. It’s not a reward for winning — it’s encouragement to keep going.


Offer it with intention. Say it with love. And always let your child know:

“I see how hard you're trying. That’s what makes me proud.” 🏆

Praise in youth soccer isn’t about inflating egos — it’s about recognizing effort and character. When we offer praise with purpose, we don’t just build players — we build resilient, confident kids.

A father praises his child after a youth soccer game, gently placing a hand on his back as they look at the field during sunset — a quiet moment highlighting the power of praise in youth soccer.

 
 
 

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