Emotional Control in Youth Soccer Starts With You🧠⚽
- George Calmoti

- Jun 8
- 1 min read
A kid’s ability—or inability—to stay composed in high-pressure moments during a soccer game is one of the biggest factors in how they perform.
And where do they learn how to handle that pressure?
👉 From you.
👉 From how you react when things get intense.
👉 Not from the speech you give after the game — but from the way you carry yourself during it.
🎯 Your tone, your posture, your reaction, your facial expression —
those are the real lessons in emotional control.
You want your child to stay calm, focused, and play with heart?
Then be the example.
🛑 The next time you feel like yelling at the ref or throwing your hands up in frustration —
look across the field.
Chances are, your kid is watching.
And they’re not just watching.
They’re learning.
✊ Soccer is about so much more than goals.
It’s a training ground for composure, respect, and character.
And you, as a parent, are their first coach.
Because in the end, emotional control in youth soccer doesn’t come from what we say—it comes from who we are when the game gets tough.

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